Most of your problems are problems you shouldn’t have.

But since you assume that having problems is normal, you never investigate. You never question. That’s why they keep repeating.

But if you always accept problems without questioning their cause, what kind of life do you expect? Chaotic. Stressful. Miserable.

The right question to ask is: What could I have done to prevent this problem from repeating?

This forces critical thinking.

Instead of complaining about these problems, you figure out ways to prevent them from happening again.

And this puts you in a good position. A problem-solver instead of a blamer/complainer.

So when a problem annoys you:

1. Know the root cause.
2. Come up with steps to prevent it from happening again.
3. Refine and iterate the steps until needed.