You are “where you are in life” because of a combination of different things.

One of these is your belief.

Your belief was the catalyst of your actions. Your actions drove the results.

Whatever your belief before, it has served you well.

But life is constantly changing. Life is evolving.

Your belief may be beneficial in the past, but probably not in the present.

And not just your belief. Whatever it is that has helped you arrive where you are today could be outdated.

If you’re confused, ask yourself “Am I (still) getting the results I wanted?”

If yes, then keep going. All good.

But if not, then something must be changed.

Start with your belief.

If you used to believe that helping others is the most important thing, try changing that into “helping others is not the most important thing”.

Don’t judge yourself. Don’t label it good or bad. This is just an experiment.

As long as you’re not hurting others or breaking the law, you’re fine.

If you still didn’t get the result you wanted, keep iterating.

Iterate and iterate.

You’ll know once you’ve arrived.