Although everyone has different definitions of success, there’s one version that bothers me a lot. This: Success is being super rich or being famous. I used to believe the same thing. But who could blame us? That’s what the media has been portraying for years. Society bought it. Our parents bought it. I’m not here to …
What to Learn From People We Don’t Like
It is to never become like them. I’ve been hesitating to write this, but finally decided to give it a shot. As you may already know, I started Humans Unite together with some friends in hopes of spreading message about love, peace, and unity. My belief is that, for humans to achieve peace and harmony, …
Stop Fantasizing About the Results, Instead Focus on the Real Work
Whatever definition we have about success, one thing is always certain: Success is a byproduct of putting in the work. In my case, whatever success I have in my music journey, it is the result of hours practicing the guitar, rehearsing with the band, writing music and doing anything to promote it, and on and …
It’s Okay to Change What You Think or Believe
Two of my favorite thinkers/writers Charles Chu (The Polymath Project) and Zat Rana (Design Luck) surprisingly admitted that they’ve written many things they now disagree with. Now that made me introspect. Because just like these guys, I too, notice that there are many things I’ve written that now contradict my present worldview. It’s embarrassing in …
Will it Still Matter Next Month?
Imagine this scenario: A drunk guy sneers at you in the bar and you’re offended. I know you’re mad. Because… how could he do that? Shit. Our default reaction is to rage and confront our opponents, often through aggressive means. We want revenge. But what we fail to realize is that these things — the troublesome …
